It sounds like sex hasn’t been a priority in your relationship and if you want something, you have to prioritize. Assuming you both have normal, healthy sex drives, my advice is to rev up your sexual flirting and rev up the number of situations when you can make sex the main event. In other words, instead of planning a dinner and a movie date, set the scene at home with candles, wine, a sexy dinner and lots of touching and flirting. Let him know without coming out and saying it, that you’re interested in him sexually.
I’ve written a book called Romantic Date Ideas, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url], that gives you scenarios and DIY plans for getting the X back in your sex life. I think you should buy this book and follow the situations in it. It’s got tips and advice for activities, foods and places that will get your juices flowing — and his, too!
I know this sounds simple, but unless there’s something very wrong, physiologically, you have to make your sex life a priority.
If you need to lose weight, and that’s an issue for him, as it is for some men, then my advice is to try and do that. You’ll feel better if you think you look better and you’ll be healthier — and sexier! 😉
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