[i]You[/i] may not be ready to give up the relationship, but if he is, you have to understand that it takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one person to end it. 😳 So if he’s ready to move on, my advice is to accept that and do the same.
However, he may get back in touch with you given the circumstances you describe. It sounds like you dated him when he was fresh out of his divorce. This is a time when men usually either want to find someone with whom to settle down or to experiment and play the field to blow off some steam after the confines of a failed marriage. Either way they’re new to dating (again) — and from what you describe, your guy had some trauma at the end of his divorce. If his ex-wife just re-married, he may be mourning the relationship in spite of all the bad at the end of the marriage, and trying to make sense of things.
My advice is to back off and let him come to you — if that’s what he wants to do. Don’t chase after him. You’ve already tried to get in touch with him. The ball’s in his court.
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