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So there’s this guy who’s the first in years to be able to tickle my fancy if you know what i mean
and i decided not to be that socially awkward nerd-girl i usually am and just try my best with him,problem is
i don’t know if he is interested in me in that way,and if i should just settle for him being my friend or something.

So,the first time we met was in a bar – i was with my girlfriend and we just chilled there.And when i saw the guy the first time,he went to order a drink and i just kept staring at him,and my friend is a little more bold that i am so
she asked if i’d want to go talk to him? i was like ummm…tooo shy <3 and then s he just grabbed my hand and we went to him,she talked something with him,propably about her newly opened tattoo shop,as she was promoting it to basically everyone at the bar earlier – and i noticed the guy was literally staring at me all the time while still talking to my friend,dear god the tension was so thick over there..i can only imagine what a dumb smile i was having on.So when my friend finished talking him we went back to our seats and he went to his.
Next day he has added me on facebook and we started talking 🙂
Unfortunately it has occured to me that we don’t have that much in common,unfortunately.
But last sunday he was like “hey whaddya think i came there and we could drink and stuff?” and i was like
“sure why not,im ready in 3 hours as i need to go to the store and clean up the house a lil and take a shower”
and then he replied that 3 hours was too long time to wait,maybe next time then haha and i was like sure lol (disappointed </3).Then at the evening when i’ve had all my things and errands done and started drinking alone he texts me saying “On the other hand,i could come there” and i replied “Sure 🙂 not fun drinkining alone anyways” and then in like 10mins he replies that he’s on the bus now and he’s bringing couple of friends with him.
When later i go open the door for him,i see that he’s alone and i’m like “lol,where’s your friends? =D” and he says he wasn’t intending to bring any and he was just joking with me.
As night passed by we didn’t anything special really.Watched a movie,played with my 1-month old bunny babies as they were so darn cute.Throughout the evening i noticed that whenever i looked at him he just chuckled and looked away (aww cute <3).So i was sneaking and was like “Hey wanna have a staring competition? Loser owes winner 2 euros” he said you’re on and then we got started.I remember his pupils being pretty darn big and that he kept making funny faces haha (it was type of competition that first one to look away loses,not who’s the one laughing first haha) and then he just couldn’t take it anymore i guess so he lost that one heh.
When we went to sleep at like 9am in the morning he slept next to me,but had like all his clothes on except for socks.No idea what that was about as i noticed the room temperature was pretty high and i had to be in my nightie-shorts and t-shirt.So i was waiting for him to basically fall asleep and myself being only half-awake,i curled my arm and leg around him and he just chuckled everytime i did 😀 of course i tried to make it look like i was doing so in my sleep,not awake..but seriously everytime i re-positioned my arm on his chest or something i hear a little chuckle,dear god it was cute.And we slept pretty darn long.And i heard him leaving only at like 5pm in the evening,and when i later asked him he said he only left because otherwise he wouldn’t have been able to go home that day anymore since the busses were moving all funny.

Oh and also i boiled us some spaghetti at that night cuz we were both hungry haha.

I just wish that by only this info you could be able to tell me wether i should or should not try
anything further with him 🙂 <3

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He’s not really interested in dating you. 😳 You’re Ms. Right Now — not Ms. Right.

When a guy is really interested in you, he’ll ask you out on a date. He’ll treat you like you’re someone special that he wants to win over. Instead, he asked if he could come over and drink with you at your house. 😕 That really doesn’t show that he’s interested in you. It shows that he’s interested in himself. And then, worse, when you said you needed three hours (you should have just said no), he told you that was too long and to forget it. That was your neon flashing sign that he isn’t interested in you — just some port in a storm that is there when he is. When he finally changed his mind and did show up — it doesn’t sound like he brought flowers, wine or even dinner — he relied on you to cook for him and entertain him. 😮

Read Think & Date Like A Man, a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right, so you have a better idea how to attract a man who’s into you! You can buy it on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon or right here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go with you! And please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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