i just finished my freshman year in college, and a girl that i was pretty good friends with in high school that i had a big crush on just broke up with her long-term boyfriend about a month and a half ago. they’re still friends, they’re hanging out regularly still i guess. she knows i had a crush on her and she even told me that before she was with her (at the time) boyfriend, she liked me as well. last night, her and i were hanging out for a long time, just walking around town and talking for hours on end. it was great! it was the first time i’d really hung out with her and talked to her since high school ended. she broke up with her boyfriend because the relationship stopped exciting her and she wasn’t sure what she wanted. she just didn’t enjoy the relationship anymore. i asked her last night if it’s a possibility they might get back together, and she said it’s probably unlikely even though they’re still friends.
she goes to the university that i’ll be transferring to in about a year, so until then we won’t be able to hang out much other than when she’s here or when i drive down there. i really like her and i could definitely imagine being with her. we gel so well. of course, i don’t want to rush into anything or try to pressure her since she just got out of a serious relationship and i can wait. i want her to know that i still like her, but i’m not sure if right now is the right time to tell her. but if i wait too long then it could end up being too late. should i just casually tell her that i’m in no rush but i still like her? i really want her to know!
