I’m not against co-workers dating. In fact, I think it makes a lot of sense — if you’re willing to be civilized if things don’t work out, and as long as you understand that you can’t trade work favors for personal ones. Most singles work, and the workplace is a great way to meet someone!
That said, you can’t have your cake and eat it too — in other words, you can’t want to ask her out, but not want to because it might be awkward. I don’t know how old you are, but I think you have to realize that anytime you ask someone out, you may get a rejection, or you may get a positive response. You have to be wiling to risk rejection in order to get a yes — you can’t have the affirmative response without asking. 😉 So, my advice is to simply ask her out for drinks after work or to see a movie on the weekend. If she says no, you can’t win them all, but at least you gave it a shot, and if she says yes, have a great date! 😉
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