If she’s getting so drunk she can’t walk, you’re dealing with someone who’s possibly got an alcohol problem. It doesn’t mean she’s an alcoholic, but the frequency with which she gets so inebriated you’re literally carrying her, is not a good sign. My advice is to stop carrying her and let her stay where she’s drunk, so she can wake up and realize her own problem without you enabling this situation.
It also sounds like the upcoming split the two of you are going to have, is creating stress that isn’t being talked about. Some people have trouble breaking up, so they create drama in order to facilitate a break up. Your girlfriend may realize she’s leaving town to go to college, while you’re staying in town to finish your degree here, and she’s very uncomfortable with that split, but doesn’t know how to handle it, so she’s creating a break up.
There’s not a lot for you to do when someone else is acting out — except to maintain your own stability, and eventually, if her instability doesn’t stop, you have to move on because the girlfriend you once have is not the girlfriend you have now.
All that means is that you can’t make her want to be with you; be sober; be someone who reacts normally. You have to realize that this is who she is, and after a while, decide if this is who you want to be with.
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