HELLO, IM A 43 YEAR OLD GUY WHO LOOKS AND ACTS MUCH YOUNGER. IM DIVORCED, HAVE 2 KIDS AND ENGAGED TO A GORGEOUS 28 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO IVE BEEN DATING AND LIVING WITH FOR THE PAST 4 YEARS. I LOVE MY FIANCE MORE THAN ANYTHING BUT I FIND MYSELF IN A CRAZY SITUATION. I THINK IM IN LOVE WITH HER MOTHER ! HER MOM IS 58, DIVORCED, LOOKS AND ACTS MUCH MUCH YOUNGER AND LIVES DIRECTLY ACROSS THE STREET FROM US. THIS WOMAN IS JUST AS INCREDIBLE LOOKING AS MY FIANCE, MY FIANCE IS JUST A YOUNGER VERSION OF HER. BUT THERES JUST MORE TO HER, SHE AS THE MOST INCREDIBLE PERSONALITY THAT GOES ALONG WITH HER LOOKS. SHE’S A FREE SPIRIT AND IS ALWAYS LAUGHING AND HAVING FUN. SHE IS JUST SO APPEALING TO ME AND I FIND MYSELF WANTING TO BE AROUND HER MORE AND MORE. WE HAVE ALWAYS BEEN VERY CLOSE BEFORE I EVEN STARTED DATING MY FIANCE DUE TO THE FACT THAT I WAS A FAMILY FRIEND. HER AND I CONFIDE IN EACHOTHER ALOT AND SHE SEEMS TO ENJOY TELLING ME THINGS SHE WOULDNT EVEN TELL HER OWN CHILDREN. WE OFTEN HANG OUT TOGETHER ALONE DRINKING WINE, LAUGHING AND JUST TALKING. THERE WAS A TIME WHEN THERE WAS KIND OF SOMETHING BETWEEN HER AND I BEFORE MY FIANCE AND I STARTED DATING. WE KISSED A FEW TIMES AND WENT AT IT BUT NEVER HAD SEX. THINGS OF COURSE CHANGED WHEN I STARTED DATING HER DAUGHTER BUT IT WAS NEVER AN ISSUE TO HER FROM WHAT I COULD TELL, SINCE SHE WAS ALWAYS IN AND OUT OF RELATIONSHIPS IT SEEMED AS IF I WAS NEVER AN ISSUE TO HER. TIME WENT ON, WE WERENT AS CLOSE AS WE ONCE WERE AND NOW SHE MOVED RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM US AND I FIND MYSELF NOT BEING ABLE TO GET HER OUT OF MY HEAD. WE DONT HANG OUT TOGETHER AS MUCH AS I LIKE BECAUSE SHE SAYS THAT IT DOESNT LOOK RIGHT FOR THE 2 OF US TO BE ALONE TOGETHER IN HER HOUSE, SHE’S VERY STERN ABOUT IT. I ABIDE BY HER RULE BUT I FIND MYSELF THE LAST 6 MONTHS TEXTING HER EVERY CHANCE I GET AND BEING VERY FORWARD ABOUT MY FEELINGS ABOUT HER. THERE ARE TIMES WHERE SHE GETS UNCOMFORTABLE AND TEXTS BACK TELLING ME SHE HAS TO GO OR CANT TALK RIGHT NOW. EVEN WITH THAT THERE ARE TIMES SHE AGREES TO HANG OUT LIKE LAST WEEK WE WENT TO THE LOCAL BAR AND HAD LUNCH AND A FEW DRINKS TOGETHER AND SHE TALKED ABOUT EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING WITH ME AS USUAL. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO MAKE OF IT ALL OR WHAT TO DO ABOUT THE WHOLE SITUATION BUT ALL I KNOW IS THAT IM SO HAPPY AND TURNED ON WHEN IM WITH HER EVEN IF ITS FOR AND HOUR OR TWO. I WOULD NEVER WANT TO HURT MY FIANCE BUT I CANT GET THIS WOMAN OUT OF MY HEAD NO MATTER WHAT I TRY, SHE JUST DOES IT FOR ME ON ALL LEVELS, CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ?
