Hi April,
I have some problem which I need some advices from you.
I am around 20 y.o and so does my boyfriend, we are both in college.
We just have this relationship in about 9 months.
I am the one who confess to him, because i felt like he is just too shy to say it first,but i know we are going to be a great pair,or so I think.
The reality isn’t as good as I imagined it to be.
We both likes the same thing, and he is such a really nice guy, even though he doesn’t own his own vehicle, he would take bus to meet somewhere close to my place.(Our house isn’t close at all, and it took him almost two hour to get to my place)
He won’t let me buy food or cinema ticket on my own. He will always pay for everything i want as long as he is capable. He has good grades,
He work part-time to get money.
Everything is actually fine.
Until i felt nothing toward him in the past few months.
I do still like him, I don’t want to break up, seeing him chat with other girls makes me jealous. But sometimes I feel nothing and bored with him.
And I think it’s because I can’t truly accept who he is.
I am not sure that he is the one for me, because, I know that his family isn’t going great right now, I mean, he even has to pay for his tuition by himself. He has no ride, and he said he doesn’t really like office job. I can’t imagine my future with someone like him. I mean, I am just being real, no one can lives without money.
I am a hardworker, but that doesn’t mean I am going to work myself to death just to pay off bills and has no saving.
I know no one can predict what the future will be. No one knows whether a person will be able to succeed in the future or not.
And he even said he will work hard so that I won’t have to work at all. But still, it’s just a hope, no one knows what will happen. And i feel insecure about what my future will be. Should I find someone whom already has a steady job even though maybe that kind of person won’t be able to love me as much as he did, or should I stay with the one who will love me for sure?
Please give me your advices.
Many Thanks before.
