[rinnie.go]

so about 5 months ago, i started roleplaying on FACEBOOK. and there, i found a RP boyfriend…
apperantly, i started texting him since we’re from the same country…

he confesed that he actually likes me in real life…
no, we havent ever talked or met. just text.
we havent seen each others picture in real life either…

i admit, we get into small drama arguments and stuff.. its usually because of me too… i just keep hurting him..
we get into awkward conversations a lot and run out of things to talk about too…

just recently, i have a close guy friend that’s like my brother..
he was telling me about how true love waits and how i should follow my head and not my heart…
i understand him.. hes been through this too…
but i just cant tell what my heart or mind is saying…

so i followed my ‘head’ and decided to break up with him.. i didnt want to hurt him anymore…
but it seems he didnt want to let me go..

am i supposed to be selfish and keep holding on…?
or am i supposed to think of him and let him go…?

timme heals everything…
im fraid the longer were together, the deeper the scars will be…

[AskApril Masini]

I think this is only a mess because you never went on a single date with this guy. You’ve fantasized a relationship that doesn’t really exist. It’s fine to play games, as long as you know in your own head when you’re playing and when you’re not. I think you somehow forgot to tell yourself that this guy has never once taken you on a real date or even decided you were important enough to get on a plane and meet in person.

This isn’t a real relationship. But clearly, you want one. My advice is to get offline and get out in the real world where you can meet real guys who will take you out for real coffee and real dinner and real movies. You’ll love the experience — I promise! 😉

I hope that helps. Please let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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