[Tina210]

I have been in a relationship since six years and I am so obssessed with him that my mood depends on his behaviour. If he doesnt talk to me i dont do anything just stay in bed and cry all day. At times he gets really nice to me but ONCE IN A BLUE MOON. We had broke up so many times but never from my side he is the one always doing that and i keep begging him to come back. My life has become miserable i cant find happiness anywhere. He treats me so badly i am always the one calling him and he never answer my calls my texts nothing at all even if theres an emergency he doesnot. I send him long notes about how i feel but still no response. Even if he answers my call by mistake all he says is that he is busy and will talk later and when i ask him you dont want to continue, he’s like i never said that. Please guys tell me what should I do Im overly obsessed with him but at the same time have lost all my self respect. My friends think i have become a loner and i dont talk to anyone i dont socialize. When i see other couples my eyes get teary that how can someone be so happy but not me. I dont want to lose him please tell me whya should i do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You should break up with him and be single for a while. You need to have a healthy life by yourself before you can be in a healthy relationship with someone else. 😉

You also have to start taking better care of yourself so you’re not so depressed. 😉 There are things you can do to that end, for instance, you can exercise regularly, eat well, make sure you have a one coffee or lunch or dinner date with a friend or family member each day, and do things like go shopping, have a hair salon appointment, and other things that will help YOU feel better so you can be part of a couple. 😀

I hope that that helps. Let me know how things go.

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[Tina210]

I have tried all this before. I cant break up its impossible for me. I tried giving him some space too for few days but still he didnt text me. I was dying with really high fever i told him this bit he didnt respond even after reading my message. I dont know why i love him so much i really want him in my life cant get over him my life will be ruined

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You can break up with him. 😉 It’s not impossible. You just have to want to do it. 🙂

If you don’t, you’re going to continue doing what you are already doing, which is just bringing you pain. 😳 The choice is yours. You’re not a victim here. 😀 You get to make choices in your own life.

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