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    thekeelster
    Member #13,540

    Hi there!
    I have been having a somewhat long distance relationship with a guy that lives in my home town. He got in touch with me about 7 weeks ago via facebook and we have been messaging ever since. I have met up with him a few times and it’s always been good. Earlier this week, we were still exchanging texts and also picture messages with each other.
    This week, a friend of mine told me that someone she works with knows someone that has been seeing the guy I have been seeing. I called him to ask him and he has denied it which I chose to believe. He also told me that he was enjoying getting to know me and wanted to take things slowly as he had a bad experience with his ex, they also have a 2 year old daughter.
    I contacted him the following day to ask if he was ok and he told me that he was really annoyed with what had been said (there were still kisses on the end of these messages!). I have tried to contact him via text yesterday but he hasnt responded to either of the messages I have sent to him.
    I am now wondering whether this is him using this as an excuse to stop talking to me, or whether he could generally still be annoyed by what had been said. I wouldn’t have thought a man would be sending pics of himself and still being nice in messages if he was planning to blow someone off, but he did then change about 48 hours later by not replying to messages!!
    Can someone help?!

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    kai
    Member #56

    Hi thekeelster, I’ve told this to several other people who have posted questions in the WELCOME AREA: the Welcome Area [b]IS NOT for questions[/b] and [u]should not[/u] be used to get advice. 😮

    it says “DO NOT post your questions” here, when you go to sign up. 😳

    Please [b]repost your question in the Q & A Relationship Advice Forum[/b] if you want to get a response from April.

    [b]you won’t get a response to your question here — this is the welcome area.[/b] 😀

    #32111

    Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

    #51618
    Sally
    Member #382,674

    If someone wants to keep talking to you, they do. Being annoyed doesn’t usually turn into total silence, especially after weeks of daily messages, pictures, and sweetness. Adults don’t disappear when they care they explain, even briefly.

    It’s possible he felt uncomfortable being questioned and didn’t want to deal with it. It’s also possible there is something else going on and this gave him an out. Either way, the result is the same: you’re left confused and waiting, and that’s not fair to you.

    Try not to replay every sweet message and look for logic there. People can be warm one day and gone the next. That doesn’t mean you imagined it just that he wasn’t as steady as he seemed.
    I’d stop reaching out for now. If he comes back with clarity, you can decide then. If he doesn’t, the silence already told you what you needed to know.

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    Aida Omar
    Member #382,748

    You are losing your self-respect. If someone loves you, they will not make you wait. If they are not responding to you and are not contacting you, it means that they are not interested in you.
    Stop texting or calling him repeatedly, and don’t chase him. Talk to him directly one last time. If he does not answer you properly, move on without looking back.

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