[brenduhh22]

Ok so i met this guy a few days ago and on saturday he came over to my house and hung out but then it got intimate but we didnt have sex but then today my friend told me that he had told her i was a liar a bitch and so on but i was upset he said that so i asked him y he said it and he was like no i never said anything so i was mad but i walked away then we were texting and he called me asking me what was going on that he had never said anything and that why was my friend mad at him so i said shes mad because u lied about so many things but i wouldnt tell him the rest so i was like ok by and hes like if u hangup ull c wat happens and im like whats gonna happened and hes like ull c so i was playing around with my phone and i hung up on him and so i textd him telling him that i didnt mean to hangup on him but he got all pissed and said i was a liar and he didnt want me to text or call him that i should grow up and ect so i was like whatever but then my friend textd him asking what had happen and he was like that im a liar and so on and she said she didnt lie to u and she likes u and he said she doesnt no me and that he doesnt Like Me At All but ughh idk what to do

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’re getting involved in crazy drama with a guy you’ve known for only [i]a couple of days![/i] 😯 I’m not sure how old any of you are, but my advice is to do nothing! I know that’s going to be hard for you because you seem to like getting involved in drama, but it’s time to break that pattern.

One of the keys to relationships is to pay attention to the other person so you can get to know him. If you keep texting him and reacting and asking your friends what he did and said, then you’re not watching and listening! 😮 Let men ask you out and let men chase you. Don’t text them first, and don’t hang out when you could wait to see if he asks you out on a date to show how much he cares about you! 😀

This guy seems to have behaved poorly, and it doesn’t really seem worth your while to pursue this relationship any more. But more importantly is the opportunity for you to wait, watch, and see who he — and other men who will come into your life — really are. 😉

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