I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half now and things are getting really bad. Throughout our relationship, I have had many doubts and have tried to end it many times. However he never gave up on me and always asked for a second chance. He said he’d never ever give up. However, a day ago, he told me he was confused and that he had given too much in this relationship and he doesn’t know what to do. He says he’s tired and confused. I am so hurt and have been crying everyday. He still answers my calls. Just last night I went out on a dinner with him and his family again and everything seemed fine. He says his feelings are fading but he’s trying to get them back because he wants us to be happy again like in the past. He says he still loves me and cares for me. When I went over to his place, he held me tightly and when I asked him if he’d try to leave again he said no. And he asked for a break, he says he needs time off alone to think. I can’t do anything, I’m so confused I don’t know if I should just leave him alone or constantly remind him that I’m always here for him. I really want to give up on this relationship because of the way he’s acting but I love him too much to do so.
I really don’t know what to do, I really need help and some advice