[robseargant]

Hi there,

I have really liked this girl since spending a weekend with her through a social outing a year ago. We live bout 45 mins from each other but only recently did I get to meet her again after not seeing her for a year. We got on great. I find it really easy to talk to her and feel at ease around her. I only found out from her that she was after breaking up with someone after I asked her out! I hope this will not put out her off me? So should I still make frequent contact with her or should I give her some space and time?

The thing is after not seeing her in person for a year, I really feel I need to meet her more in person and get to know her better. Any advice?

[AskApril Masini]

Your instincts are right! You should definitely pursue her, normally. The fact that she just broke up with someone is great because she’s available. If you don’t act, you may lose out to someone else. 😉 On the other hand, get to know her during the dating process to make sure this doesn’t become a rebound relationship for her. 🙂

Hope that helps!

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[robseargant]

Thanks for that April. The thing is I asked her out while chatting online on fb. I don’t want to seem too persistent. I was thinking of calling her on the phone instead?

[AskApril Masini]

Well, if you asked her out while chatting on Facebook, she’s probably responded already. If she said yes, then call her up and make plans. If she said no, then consider dating someone else. 😉

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