[pinkbubble]

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for about four months now. Everything has been so great. We work well together and have fun together. We are like best friends and love life has been amazing. Then last week he starts hanging around a group of friends… guys and girls…mostly couples. He doesn’t invite me to go. He went out with them three times this week. Fishing with them yesterday. We were supposed to be camping together , just me and him tonight but his leg is hurting. He says we don’t have the money to do the things he is doing with them. They invite him and pay for everything. I really care for him alot. I don’t want to needlessly ruin what we have but am confused. A girl in this group of friends calls him several times a day. I am trying to be open minded. I don’t think he is cheating but I don’t like this. We have been arguing ever since he started hanging out with them. Any advice???

[AskApril Masini]

Sometimes instead of controlling things, you actually have more control if you hang back and watch what happens. It sounds like he’s testing the waters with another woman and pulling away from you. Your job is to give him something alluring to chase after and catch — not to command and control him. Dating is a process where you get to figure out if you want to continue investing in the relationship. He sounds like he’s investing less and less in dating you and more and more in being with other people. If he’s not interested, you’d do best to accept that and find someone who is. 😉

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