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I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have dated for a year and recently he told me that he would like to maintain a best friend relationship with me. He say it’s best for both of us as currently he is having problem settling his debts. I am very sad as I would like our relationship to progress further and not go backward.

My boyfriend currently working outstation and seldom come back to see me. We only text each other at night after he finishes his work. Whenever I ask him to come back to see me, he will give excuses by saying that he don’t have time to come back or he doesn’t know whether he can come back as he has alot of work to do. I really don’t know whether he is telling me the truth. All I hear from him is busy and no time to come back whenever I pop the same question.

I really don’t know what to do anymore. Please help!

[AskApril Masini]

You do know what to do — but you don’t want to do it. 😳 He’s making it clear that he wants to end the relationship and you don’t want to. 😕 It takes two people to make a relationship work, but only one to end it. My advice is to accept what he’s telling you and showing you — that he’s not interested in the relationship any more and doesn’t have time for you — and find someone who does! 😉 Rejection isn’t just a sad situation. It’s also a gift because it lets you know who isn’t interested in you, so you can stop wasting your time with a dead end relationship and move on to find someone who is Mr. Right. 😀 Try to see this break up as a good thing, and it will be just that. 😉

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