He has made you do “chores” and “sex” by saying, “I don’t want to get married.” Now you’re trying to be the “Perfect Housewife” so that the man doesn’t run away. This is not a relationship; it has become a performance review.
And when you solved the problem of house and sex, now he has come up with a new excuse: I have to be alone. Dude, if you were supposed to be alone, why have you been together for 17 months? It’s clear that he wants to enjoy the “benefits” but is running away from the “responsibility.”
It’s wrong, my dear
AskApril gave expert advice that I liked a lot. Now that the man has said again that he is not ready to “settle down,” April Masini said: “If the man is wasting your time, start dating other men immediately.” That is, make him feel that you are not “available” if he cannot commit.
