[eleni.man]

Please help!!!I’ve been dating a guy for 6 about months and it’s been perfect.till now,he had never been in such long term relationship and a week ago he told me that he’s having the most amazing time ever with me,that he loves all of the things we do together,and that’s the reason why he has started to see me as his best friend.he also said that he felt like he kissed his sister.He told me that he doesn’t want to break up with me and that he does not want to lose me but according to what he said,he does not know if he’s still sexually attracted to me.After one week of thinking he said that we could give it one more try,but i feel that there’s a distance between us.What should i do??I don’t want to lose him..

[AskApril Masini]

When after six months of dating, a guy tells you he isn’t attracted to you any more, that’s his way of trying to be kind in a break up. In other words, he wants to keep you on the hook, as a friend, but see other people. There’s nothing in this for you any more. 😳

Don’t accept the offer of friendship — men and women can’t be friends, ESPECIALLY in a break up situation. One person always likes the other one more, and in a romantic or sexual way — and that’s not friendship! 😉 Befriending a guy also keeps you off the market because you don’t really feel single, and you’re not as available as you’d be to meet someone else, as well.

Accept the rejection as a gift, because it’s a way for you to know where not to waste time. Not everyone is going to be your cup of tea, and you’re not going to be everyone else’s cup of tea. Find someone where that attraction and relationship goal is mutual. 🙂

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