My boyfriend recently told me he had threesomes in his past. We were laying in bed cuddling and talking, we were talking about some past sexual experiences and he shared some details about one of his previous relationships.
His ex and him had dated for eight years, and lived together for four. While they were dating they experimented with threesomes. His ex was very… adventurous? She had strong urges to have threesomes. He claims he was not into the idea but eventually came around to it. He shared during their relationship they had one threesome with another man (they took turns having sex with her), and several with different women. She even wanted to do couple swaps, which basically resulted with her going home with other men.
I feel very uncomfortable about this. I would never wish to participate in a threesome. I feel very unexciting. I like it just being “normal” sex. He assured me that they were merely experiences that he did not particularly enjoy and did not wish to have again. He emphasized that he loved me and he was very happy with our sex life the way it is. I feel so uncomfortable about the whole thing. Was he telling me what I wanted to hear? How could he have been in a relationship for so long with someone who was like that. Will he expect that kind of thing from me a few years down the road. I am basically putting the brakes on our relationship. I am glad he was honest but I am freaked out.
