Don’t talk to him about your self-consciousness and inhibitions in bed — he doesn’t want to hear about it. All he wants to know is that he’s pleasing you! 😀 Women make the mistake of thinking their boyfriends are their girlfriends. Guys don’t want to know everything. If you have a problem, they want to fix it, and if they can’t fix it, they’re going to feel inadequate — so don’t bring it up!
Next, understand that men like women who enjoy sex. Men want to feel like they’re great at it, and the way they feel that they’re great at it is if they’re pleasing you. If you can’t show him that in bed, he’s going to feel badly about himself, about you and about the two of you together. So, overcome your feelings about yourself, and focus more on him, and on letting go and enjoying yourself.
Figure out what you’re self-conscious about, specifically, and then work on that so you’re not. If you need to lose weight, and that’s making you feel self-conscious, then lose the weight! If you don’t like a body part, understand that he likes your body parts! In fact, he wants more of you, not less.
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