[greeney]

long story short im crazy about a single mom who m sure likes me she laughs at my shit jokes is always complimenting me asking for hugs touching my arm ect . anyway she said maybe when I asked her to unch im telling myself that shes acting hard to get but maybe my strong feelings are clouding my judgment any advice welcome im also a co-worker of hers

[AskApril Masini]

When you ask a woman out to lunch and she says maybe, you should back off. She’s not sure, and what you don’t want to do is to barrage her with more invitations to force a response. 😉 Instead, don’t ask her out for a couple of weeks, but during that time, flirt with her, play the field so she knows you’re attractive to other women, and after a couple of weeks, ask her out to dinner with a specific time and place (“Would you like to have dinner with me on Saturday at that new Italian place? I can pick you up at 8.” ) If she says maybe or no to that invitation, I’d move on. But for now, give her a chance to simmer. 😎

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[greeney]

yeah that’s wat i was thinking thanx for tha confirmation

[greeney]

one more question if you don’t mind I only work with her every weekend should I wait the 2 weeks or leave it longer like you said I don’t want to pressure her also the as you also mentioned I need to show im not desperate which im not tho I am crazy about her

[AskApril Masini]

I think two weeks is fine. If the opportunity comes up to ask her out, then you should do it. If not, wait until the next time. There’s this cliche that’s true — nice guys finish last. If you bend over backwards to be available and wear your heart on your sleeve — especially after she gave you a maybe — you’re asking for the doormat prize. The goal is to let her know without saying so, that you’re a prize she should be glad to have the opportunity to date. That’s why waiting — because you have a life and aren’t counting the minutes until you see her (even if you are, don’t let her know that) and are attractive to other women, which should make you more attractive to her, as a result — are all going to work for you. 😉

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