It’s not that you should be concerned, but you should be [i]realistic[/i] about what’s going on. 😉 If he didn’t tell you he was moving until the very last date the two of you had — and he was already packed and ready to go… 😯… he wasn’t thinking about a future with you. 😥 If he was, he would have discussed the move with you before it was actually happening. He didn’t want your opinion on the move, and he didn’t want to share it with you. The fact that he’s not in communication very much, now that he has moved, underscores that. Now, you have a long distance relationship as a possibility — but he doesn’t really seem to want one.
In addition, it’s not clear why, at age 30, he moved several states away, has no job, and is moving back in six months. This doesn’t sound like a man with a plan, if you know what I mean! 😉 I know you’re hanging on his words — some of his compliments probably make you feel special — like his saying he loves you and that you’re wife material — but the reality is that he’s far from wanting a wife. He’s just saying what he thinks will keep you in the game, while he plays the field in the state where he’s living now. And that’s okay, as long as you’re not fooling yourself that he’s not dating.
My advice is that you accept his move as the end of the relationship and don’t wait around for him. Instead, move on. You’ve only invested a couple of months, so it’s not like this is a long term relationship that you’re leaving. 😉 I hope that helps you.
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