[kaynae]

I was set up by a girlfriend with a single guy that she knew. From the first day we met, we have been inseparable. We immediately had a strong connection….something that I hadn’t had in a long time. We have great conversation, we laugh, we spend lots time together, we are very affectionate towards each other, the mental and physical connection was very strong. so we eventually started sleeping together. After a month of all this….I asked him a question. What would you say if someone asked you if you have a woman? His response was: “I would tell them that I’m talking to someone”. Should I take that as a sign that he is not interested in a relationship with me? and just sees me as something to do?

[tricia]

To the fact that the two of you are sleeping together and conduct this kind of thing, this simply means that you should not be just SOMEONE. You should really be pissed on on his answer as he let you feel that those romantic nights are just NOTHING to him. Wake up! his not worth it!!!!!

[Ask April Masini]

If your boyfriend of one month with whom you’re sleeping with says he would tell someone he has a woman he is talking to rather than a girlfriend, or that he has someone special in his life, I’d be insulted if I were you. Big time.

Either he doesn’t want anyone to know he’s with you to keep his options open, or he’s trying to make you feel badly about yourself. Both of which are rotten. I mean, even if he wants to keep his options open, he could have been a lot more tactful and told you that he’d tell anyone who asked if he has a woman that it’s none of their business or that’s private, or even a coy, maybe, would be better than what he actually said.

I’d see this as a big flashing yellow light, and proceed with caution.

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