You’re doing to me exactly what you did to your boyfriend. 😯
One of the reasons he broke up with you is because you used different e-mail addresses to post things to him that were problematic. Now you’ve posted to me three different times under three different e-mail addresses right here, in spite of my request that you post them all together, so I have the benefit of seeing your whole problem instead of just your edited versions without my advice! 😮
I’ve already advised you on this issue, and the biggest problem you seem to have — which you keep ignoring — is other people’s feelings. 😕 When I ask you to do something really simple and that helps me and the readers on this forum, you ignore it and post from another e-mail address. This is exactly what got you in hot water with the boyfriend who’s attention you now wish you had.
If you’re not willing to change your own behavior, you’re going to continue to lose out. 🙄
I suggested you apologize to his two sisters who you wrote previously that you yelled at — in spite of his family already being kind and solicitous on a previous of your hospital visits. You seem to have ignored that advice, and frankly, you haven’t done anything to deserve your ex-boyfriend’s attention, and I suspect you’ve lost friends and relatives who should be there for you now, because of similar behavior on your part towards them.
Learn your lesson now before you’re worse off. Be kind to other people. Don’t ignore them. Start each day by being a good person and doing kind things for others. Don’t be greedy — be generous without expecting anything in return. It’s a much more graceful way to live.
I hope that helps — and that you’ll stop using different e-mails here when you post each time, and let everyone see the history of any problems you have so that we can all help you address your issues.
