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    CasualDude10
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    Ok so I was dumb and stopped talking to her because she was way to clingy, this was like 4 months ago. So last month I decided to text her and I got feelings back for her.Ever since then we’ve been texting again. She has told me 3 times she was so happy I texted her and I was the guy she texted the most. We talked on the phone for like 3 hours one night. But last week she started getting weird. Stopped texting back right away, wouldn’t text me like she used to.

    I asked her Wednesday night if she wanted to go back to the way we used to be or just stay friends and to hangout Saturday. She said she was doing bad in school, and if she doesn’t pass her tests on Thursday, she was going to get grounded and wouldn’t have her phone for two months (her punishment last time). If that would happen she’d hate to get into anything. So I said okay. I texted her Thursday telling her goodluck, and never got a response. Then followed back later that night with a “Or not. Ill just leave you alone text.”

    We didn’t text Friday, and Saturday I asked her if we were doing anything or not, and she said she can’t and she didn’t know why I seemed mad at her. I told her I wasn’t mad and didn’t want to bug her that’s why I haven’t been texting her then she proceeded to tell me how she did on her tests, then just randomly stopped texting me after about an hour.

    Whats up with this and what should I do?
    She still retweets me on twitter and favorites my stuff on there too. So she isn’t like completely cutting me off from her. I don’t plan on text her for a couple weeks if not longer. But I was wondering, in all of your opinions, if like in a couple of days I should tweet, “Miss texting #oomf (one of my followers)” or would that be a turnoff?

    (Side note: I’m a senior and shes a junior in highschool. We hung out once four months ago, and since I have started texting her again asked her three different times to hangout and she couldn’t. Also, last week we had a 3 hour phone conversation.)

    #25653
    CasualDude10
    Member #194,629

    no help?

    #25752

    It sounds like your relationship is happening mostly in cyberspace. 😕 It’s easy to do this — but it also leads to confusion, which you’re experiencing.

    My advice is to invite her do things in real life, which is how you can get to know her best, and she can get to know you best, and you don’t have to second guess what texts (or lack of them) or tweets (or lack of them) mean. If she’s not interested in spending time with you outside of texting and tweeting and even the phone, then I’d move on if I were you, and find someone who is. 😉

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