[renee5525]

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Contacted a women and he is mad was i wrong? My bf friends has a internet show and they booked a adult web cam model on there. I. Was watching because I’m a fan. I didn’t know my bf was going to be on and when I tuned on she was topless and he was touching and feeling up on her. I was very hurt and upset I text him and he was not aswering me for like 2 weeks. I know he get busy so I was not worried . The lady flew home to cali and I was getting really upset because he posted how she has his heart on his fb page. I was on twitter one night and she was posting. I messaged her and she responed a couple days ago. I pm her on fb and I she stated it was part of the show. My bf found out and is so pissed at me. He unfriended me told me to unfriend his friends on fb and stop bothering them. He said I should stay out of people business. If I am his gf why would he react like this if he did’n’t want her. Was I wrong for contacting her? He says I’m special to him but why would he do these things if I was special. Is it over with us and I need to move on or does he need some time to cool off. He was mad that I contacted her and that I should have waited to talk to him. But you wouldn’t have acted like that if he didn’t want her he said that he hasn’t talked to her since she left and that I didn’t make anything better. But I didn’t say anything bad I stated that I was fan of the show and hers and that I like the guy in the show and that I wanted to know if anything happened or was it part of the show. Was I wrong? I still want and miss him.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you and your boyfriend and how long have you been dating?

[renee5525]

I’m 32 and he’s 37 and we’ve been going out for 8 months

[April Masini, your AskApril]

There are a couple of problems in your relationship:

1. If your boyfriend has a web cam show where he has topless models on, you have to understand that he’s going to be thinking about these women in a sexual way and if he was groping a woman on his show, then posted that she had his heart, you should probably be concerned that he’s not that into you.

2. If he doesn’t contact you for two weeks after you’ve been dating for eight months, I would also worry that he’s not that into you.

3 And if you find yourself needing to contact this other woman, because you’re not getting a satisfactory answer from him about his feelings about her or their relationship, you’ve probably got more trust issues with him going on than you’re willing to admit.

It doesn’t sound like, at the eight month mark, at your ages, that he’s really that interested in a future with you, and his job is going to lead you into more situations like this one which are very unsettling for you. So, yes, I do think that it’s time for you to move on and find someone who’s a lot more compatible with you than he is.

I hope that helps. Please let me know how things go, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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