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Should I talk to her after she rejected me?

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    sfmcarbaugh
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    I go to this bar on Sunday nights and theres this waitress that works there. The first time I saw her I thought she was pretty but I didn’t like her enough to ask her out. The next Sunday she was working and that night it hit me and I knew I liked this girl. I asked her if she was dating somebody and she said no in a disapointing tone. I asked her if I could take her out and she hesitated but finally asked if I want her number. She gave it to me and I text her for a little for two days. She said she’s going to the beach for a few days so I waited untill she got back to call her so we could get together. She said she had to work Thursday to Sunday nights and she’ll call me tomorrow when she knows when she’ll have some free time. Tomorrow came and she never called me. I went to the bar on Sunday and she wasn’t working. Twice she lied to me, obviously she rejected me without telling me. Why couldn’t she reject me in front of me from the beginning instead of letting me text and call her for a little making me think I could get a hot date out of this? I haven’t seen her since but if I do see her again is there a chance she might talk to me? If not should I talk to her to find out what her problem was?

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    AskApril Masini
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    [quote]Why couldn’t she reject me in front of me from the beginning instead of letting me text and call her for a little making me think I could get a hot date out of this? [/quote]

    She didn’t have the maturity or bravery to reject you straight out. A lot of people don’t. Plus, they don’t want to hurt the person they’re rejecting so they do things to avoid it.

    [quote]I haven’t seen her since but if I do see her again is there a chance she might talk to me? [/quote]

    Yes! And the best way to test that is to try it. You don’t have a lot to lose if you talk to her again. I think you should.

    [quote]If not should I talk to her to find out what her problem was?[/quote]

    No. If she really was rejecting you, as opposed to a miscommunication, you don’t need to know why. You don’t have a history with her, so “no” should be enough. Not everyone is everyone else’s cup of tea, and rather than press the issue, just move on. 😉

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