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Slept with my guys friend , but didnt know they were friends

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    Brilove2214
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    OK so me and this guy are talking . I brought him somewhere with me and we saw his friend..But the thing is that I slept with his friend(5 times) , but this was way before I even met the one im talking 2 . So while I wasnt there , His friend told him behind my back that we had sex multiple times , and he told him not to tell me that he told him . But my boo told me anyway , and I was mad at his friend for telling him…So I lied and said that it wasnt true..I only did this b/c I didnt want him to not wanna talk to me anymore b/c I didnt want him to think I was nasty for sleeping with his friend , even though I was dealing with his friend for about a year was and we still were dealing until I met the one I was talking to now..So I knew his friend wayyy before I knew him . So theyre not friends anymore because I told him that his friend lied . So I was mad at his friend , and his friend tells me that he didnt say that , and that his friend is lying .I was mad at the friend for telling my boo about us , and he lied when I asked him about it..But then again I respect his friend because he kept it real with him and just told him . But I know his friend really really good , he did it out of spite and to throw it in his face(because he gets real jealous) , and my boo told me he was smiling really hard when he said it . So like I said , I lied and now since theye not friends anymore , I feel like I broke their friendship up ๐Ÿ™ So 2 questions , should I be mad at his friend for telling him ? And also Should I tell the one im talking to that his friend isnt lying..I mean I already told him he was lying , but I regret it and I now feel like I should keep it real because after all we might just end up going out , and I dont want to start our relationship on lies ๐Ÿ™ So plz and thx help me with what I should do . 10 easy points ๐Ÿ™‚
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    [quote]So 2 questions , should I be mad at his friend for telling him ? And also Should I tell the one im talking to that his friend isnt lying.[/quote]

    You shouldn’t be mad at his friend for telling him that he’d slept with you. You can’t really control what people do. It probably wasn’t very gentlemanly of his friend to “kiss and tell”, but guys talk. It’s natural.

    And yes, you should admit that you lied and try to break yourself of that habit. You’re right that it’s very difficult to have a relationship with someone when there are trust issues and if you lie, you’re going to break trust, not build it.

    I hope that helps.

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