[Nats12]

So ive known this guy for 3 years & ive loved him ever since my best friend went out with him 6months after i met him so i stopped talking to him after that . They went out for 6months when they broke up we cowinsedently bumped in to eachother at this fast food restraunt sinve then weve been talking .. After two months into talking he said he loved me & i said it back because i was HEAD OF HEELS for this guy n i still am .. So anyway we were in a relationhip for 5months and things were going fine until the day of his court case i called him that day to see how he was going and everything was fine . (forgot to mention i had no phone for 5weeks so ide call him off my sosters phone) so the night of his court case i got a phone and asked my friend to message him my number n she did after that i didnt here from him until the ext day i called to see if he was alright and he was he said hell cal me back but he didnt . Im a very stubborn girl and so is he . I didnt call him back after that till 3 weeks later i called , & he was actualy happy & surpsied that i did he kept saying why i didnt call him after that why i didnt put no effort in to talkong to him , he was really stressed out from court thats why he didnt reply to my froends message he deleted it . He didnt know i had a phone he honestly didnt. He thought i didnt want to talk to him but it was the opposite i did :/ we spoke it out and he asked me to message him my number last night it was pretty late and he was with a few mates we usually speak around 10 11 pm , so i messaged him , and before i shut he said hell call me when he gets home but he didnt n i wasnt suprised bcs it was really late :/ so my question is would he call tonight ? Do you think i should message him again incase he didnt get the message ? Should i leave it if he doesnt call ? , (as stubborn as i am i have lowerd myself for this guy so much i love him n no one understands why) im so lost ..

[AskApril Masini]

[quote]so my question is would he call tonight ? [/quote]

I can’t answer that one! I don’t have a crystal ball, and he’s not the one writing me — you are. You can’t control him, but you can control yourself, your behavior, and read his. I can help you with that. 🙂

[quote]Do you think i should message him again incase he didnt get the message ? [/quote]

No. If he wants to contact you, he will. And if you let him do the chasing, you’ll have a much better idea how interested in you he actually is. Part of your confusion comes from not letting him do the chasing. If he does, you’ll have a crystal clear idea of how he feels about you. When a guy really wants to be with you or contact you, he’ll find a way. 😉

[quote]Should i leave it if he doesnt call ?[/quote]

If he doesn’t call ever again? Obviously, yes. If he doesn’t contact you within a week or two? At that point, unless he has a good reason, you’ll have a better understanding of how he feels about you and you can decide to stay, go, or play the field. In other words, if you stop chasing him, you’ll know where you stand and you won’t be confused. 😉

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