[missang]

Hi I’m Ang for short 🙂 and I met this guy online 2 months ago. I’m 18 and he is 23 btw. It wasn’t love at first sight or anything but I just felt a instant connection with him… and he was a complete stranger.(even though I thought he was quite hot aha)

Wanting to continue communication mutually we got each other’s Skypes and vid chated with ims since our mics never seemed to work, from there on. To be honest we’re been sexual over webcam. But the thing is I would never do it with anyone else, I’d feel too odd and self conscious but with him makes me feel good about myself and doesn’t judge me. We’re talked about wanting to met in person, since he lives in romania and I live in the united states. The only issue he has is he needs a passport and visa, while I can’t have him come now cuz I still live at home. Before I even think about having him meet my family I want to met him in person first, of course. I’ve come to the point where I feel he is the ‘one’ from the fact that I constantly think about him and get antsy watching the clock …waiting to talk to him online. I never get sick of his face and read over our skype messages to hold me over. AHHH I feel crazy to act like I am but I can’t help it, and I have never been like this with any other guys I’ve ‘liked’. It’s hard waiting at times since we can’t talk on the phone because my cell service doesn’t connect to cell phones in Romania …and he only has so many international minutes.

I want to tell him fully of my feelings for him and ask about if he wants a committed long distance relationship with me, since I know I’m in love with him. And I want to wait for him, no matter.
How should I bring it up when we chat again… suggestions etc…. Or should I just wait for him to ask me himself.
And have more questions about ‘US’ dont hestiant to ask I’ll answer no issue :3

[AskApril Masini]

[quote]I want to tell him fully of my feelings for him and ask about if he wants a committed long distance relationship with me, since I know I’m in love with him. And I want to wait for him, no matter.
How should I bring it up when we chat again… suggestions etc…. Or should I just wait for him to ask me himself. [/quote]

It’s never a good idea to express your feelings first. It takes the opportunity for a man to chase you, away from him. And, if you’re unsure, you can tell how someone feels about your by their actions. So, don’t bring it up with him. Also, don’t ask if he wants a committed long distance relationship with you. If he wants a commitment, he’ll act like he wants one. Right now, he’s fine with the way things are. Don’t push; don’t chase. If you don’t like the way the relationship is going, then reconsider it. Long distance is very hard to do and isn’t for everyone. 😉

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[missang]

[quote=”April Masini”][quote]I want to tell him fully of my feelings for him and ask about if he wants a committed long distance relationship with me, since I know I’m in love with him. And I want to wait for him, no matter.
How should I bring it up when we chat again… suggestions etc…. Or should I just wait for him to ask me himself. [/quote]

It’s never a good idea to express your feelings first. It takes the opportunity for a man to chase you, away from him. And, if you’re unsure, you can tell how someone feels about your by their actions. So, don’t bring it up with him. Also, don’t ask if he wants a committed long distance relationship with you. If he wants a commitment, he’ll act like he wants one. Right now, he’s fine with the way things are. Don’t push; don’t chase. If you don’t like the way the relationship is going, then reconsider it. Long distance is very hard to do and isn’t for everyone. 😉

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Ok thank you for answering me 🙂 I can wait and see what he does of course. But is it ok to ask him about what he wants to do when we do meet , and perhaps give hints of my feelings perhaps…?
We only skype now but I want to expand our communication… we’re FB friends and started playing this Ruby game but I want to think of more ideas of how we can talk… hmmm?
Since its only been two months I dont want to just give up, I’m determined cuz I like him THAT much aha

[AskApril Masini]

Let him take the lead so you won’t be confused. 😉

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