My boyfriend and I have been seeing each oher a little over 3 months. It is fairly serious, and things have moved quickly for us. we have not yet said the “L” word, but both of us are OK with that at this point. My situation is this: Today my boyfriend told me that a “friend” wants to come for a visit(stay at his house). This friend happens to be a girl. When I said I wasn’t excited about it, but that if he says she is just a friend, then I need to be able to trust that so he should do whatever he felt was right. He told me she was someone that dated his nephew, and that he is not interested in her, that she is just a friend, but in the next breath he said OK I’ll just tell her not to come if it is going to cause problems for you. So my question is: Should I trust this man? Do I tell him that she can’t come? Or do I continue down the path of letting him choose and trying to trust him? I just don’t know what to do…
