[tracie92]

“My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. lately I’ve been feeling unhappy… Kinda depressed being with him. I’m 19 y.o and have my whole life infront of me.. but unsure if i want to be with him for the rest of it or just cut my losses and give up …” What should i do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re too young to commit to the same man you’ve been with for three years, since you were sixteen. Your feelings are guiding you. Pay attention to them. If you don’t, you’re going to become bitter and angry and take your feelings out on your boyfriend — because you don’t have the courage to walk away from a relationship that doesn’t really serve you (and therefore, him) any more

It’s time for you to see what else is out in the world for you!

I hope that helps.

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[ComplicatedOne73]

Your not really directing your unhappy feeling toward a particular thing. Think about your life. Is it your realtionship? Do you need time apart? The reason this jumped out at me, is because when I was 19 I had been dating my boyfriend for 4 years, all through high school. This caused me to miss alot of events and times with friends. He never acted like he would ever commit. So one day I decided to let him go. We both cried. We even went out a couple times after just on a date. I think we both realized we had become a habit. We broke up in Feb. I met someone that summer and was married by December. I have been married 18 years. Follow your heart. Make yourself happy.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Great story, [b]ComplicatedOne73[/b]! Thank you for sharing that. 😀

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