For the last year and a half I’ve been seeing this guy. We were only officially in a relationship (like boyfriend/girlfriend) for about two months. It’s never been exclusive for him, except for those two months. We have a two month old daughter together, who he sees and helps me with regularly. He is back with his ex girlfriend, who he also has a kid with. He is cheating on her with me for the second time. He told me, and a bunch of other people that he’s only with her again because he’s afraid she won’t let him see his daughter. He says he doesn’t care if they break up, but he won’t be the one to do it. I’m not one to cheat, or partake in any cheating..but he just has me so stuck on him. I can’t let go. Part of it I think is I’m very insecure and I’m so comfortable with him, the idea of having to go through that whole process again scares me. But anyway…what do I do? Should I wait for him to get his shit together? Or should I just try to get over him and find someone else? And if so, how do I do that? How do I get myself out there, especially being so insecure, and with a two month old daughter? Keep in mind I’m very young, so I’m aware I have my whole life ahead if me to find someone. But if he is just going to keep hurting me, I’d like to find a way to get out of this and feel better…for me and for my baby girl. I hate being alone, so if I’m going to be with someone..i want him to be committed, faithful, and he has to love children. I just have a very bad habit of picking the wrong guys. Please help me. Thank you.
