I guess Ive gotten myself in a disaster. And im having a hard time getting out now. My bf and I have been dating for about 4 months now, I knew him for a couple months before we started dating. I was living with a ex roommate at the time we started dating and he pretty much came over and slept over every day/night except for one a week. I ran into some bad problems with my ex roommate and at that time my bf and I were already talking about moving in when the lease was done. Well it was so bad that I had to break the lease and we decided to move in together. It was all good at that time, we never fought, we only had small disagreements. He came out twice to meet my parents (they are about a 14 hour drive away), I met his parents, everything was good. So we found a place, I got all the bills turned on cause he didn’t know what to do and we moved in. Well now we have been living together for about a month and a bit, and it seems like he never just comes and hang out. He has this ‘game room’ cause he is a hard core gamer, and I knew going into this that that would make it difficult; but I never would of thought it would be this bad. If I want to see him I have to go down to the room and see him. He tends to pass out in that room and comes to bed at about 5am some nights. I make the meals, lunches, clean the house and everything (I was raised like that) but he never offers to help me. And now he is getting mad a me really easily, like when he has his headphones on and I try talking to him, it almost seems like such a hassle to talk to me. I don’t know what to do. The lease is a one year lease too. And it almost seems like he is more interested in talking to him gamer buddy’s then spending time with me.
