Hi! I posted on here a few months ago but things have definitely changed since. Long story short i got dumped by my long term (almost 2 years) girlfriend because she lost interest and wanted out. Our lives were getting in the way of our relationship and it got really hard to see each other. After about 2 months she sent me a message saying that her parents had brought me up one day and were wondering how i was doing and that she had been thinking about me for the past few days, This made me a little excited so i asked her to hangout which really just re-opened the wounds. After that i stopped contacting her and really just tried to work on myself. I wished her happy birthday a few months ago but that was it. Then out of the blue she messages me saying that she misses me and just wanted to check up on me and how i’m doing. So i replayed expecting a little conversation but all she said was that’s awesome ____ hope all is well just checking in. This made me pretty angry. Why does she go zero contact for months and then out of the blue just checks up on me. It seems really selfish to me to be honest. How should i be going about this?
Thank you!
