[JeffyLikesApples]

There’s a woman at work who I’m attracted to. We first encountered each other back in mid June at a company function. It was difficult to not look in her direction and seemed as though she was looking in my direction as well. Afterwards she came over to where I was and spoke to a couple people I was sitting with. A few weeks went by before she and I actually spoke. She was full of questions. She asked how old I was,was I married, was I single,and a couple other things. Since then we really haven’t talked to each other aside from a brief exchange on Friday. We’ve caught each other looking more than I can even count. It’s almost as if we get shy around each other and totally clam up. We have mutual friends at work and I know my name has come up just as her name has come up in conversations I’ve had with people. Part of me wants to lay it all out there and tell her every little thing I’m thinking and feeling. But there’s also a part of me that’s absolutely terrified of what she might be thinking.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The first thing you do is read Date Out of Your League, so you understand how to date women successfully! Seriously — you’ll love it and it’s going to help you a lot.

After you read it, you’ll understand that as the guy, it’s up to you to pursue a woman you’re interested in seeing. Don’t tell her all your feelings and lay all your cards on the table! 😮 Instead, read the book, and learn how to ask her out on a date, make the date a special one, so she’ll want to go out with you again. That’s how you begin to pursue a relationship with a woman!! 😉

Let me know how it goes, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook

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