i met a guy online, and he is the nicest guy. we were talking for about a week, and then he invited me over one night. I went over there and we literally hung out and talked for hours. he’s really sweet, and I really enjoy being around him. by the end of the night we ended up sleeping together, but it just felt right. I spent the night, and a few days later I asked if he wanted to hang out again in the future and he said “sureee! when? you can spend the night again” we don’t talk everyday and I guess that makes me insecure at times so I told him that he doesn’t need to feel obligated to hang out with me, if he doesn’t want to that’s totally fine but just let me know. and he said “i know lol I would tell you if I didn’t wanna hang out with you, I want to” and sure enough a day later he asked to make plans for Thursday night. this time he said he was having some friends over and I could bring a friend. so we went over to his house and we all just hung out and talked and it was a lot of fun. they’re all really nice guys, and we were just drinking and socializing. the guy I’m talking to got pretty drunk and he was telling me how when he’s with me he drinks a lot (I think because he gets nervous?) but we went to go lay down and we slept together and I spent the night again. I left early in the morning but didn’t wanna wake him up. a few hours later he called me and said he just wanted to make sure I got home okay and wanted to make sure me and my friend had a good time. I thought that was so sweet. I know he probably only sees me as a good time, but I don’t know he treats me nicely and I don’t feel used, I feel like he cares kinda? maybe I’m wrong..
what do you guys think? and yesterday was the last time we talked when he called me to make sure I got home, but we haven’t spoken since..so I don’t know I’m confused! help me please 🙂 ahhh
