[bubblesbubbles_abc]

Well i’ve known this guy for 2 months now. At first we were quite shy towards each other but then one of our friend start pulling us each other. Our friend was telling me that whenever am around the way he act is so different from usual. He would act nicer towards my friend when am there. Then i’ve noticed i quite like his personality so i decided to get to know him even more and slowly i build up feelings for him. A month later i decided to tell him i liked him and he also replied back saying he got feelings for me as well. After that we started hang out more, he left his other friends to try to join my friends group. We got on so well and everything were perfect. We were basically seeing each other until one day we both went to a theme park together and i bumped into my other friends as well so we all joined together and start hang out that day. In the end of the day after everyone went home. He suddenly text one of those guy friends we met in the theme park and telling him that he got feelings for him but he doesn’t have any for me. At first i didn’t believe it until the next day we all hang out again i’ve seen how much he trys to get into my other guy friend as well. But i dont get why he hold my hands during ice skating and let me be so close to him if he doesn’t like me. After that night i decided to get things straight so i asked him why. All he said is ” i did like you” so i text the other guy friend we met in the theme park asking what happened and he replied ” well at first i lied to him that am bi just to joke with him i didn’t expect him to actually like me esp he only known me for 2 days” After we all talked things out he suddenly text me again and tried to be friends with me again. I really don’t know what he is thinking also things happened too fast. I dont know whether he have mixed emotions with the guy he met in the theme park or does he really not into me anymore thats why his feelings changing so quickly. All i know is i really do like him and i want to be with him but am lost i want to know what i should do now.

[AskApril Masini]

How old are you all?

[bubblesbubbles_abc]

18

[AskApril Masini]

Thank you for telling me your ages. What it tells me is that you’re all young and don’t have a lot of dating experience. I can help you with a couple of general dating tips. The first is that it’s not a good idea to make the first move. In your case, telling him you like him, is a first move. When you do something like that, you don’t really get to see if he’d ever make a first move. Lots of times people respond because it’s easier to be responsive than to work up the nerve to say something or ask someone out — but if a guy DOES work up the nerve and the energy to risk rejection and ask you out, then you can know for sure that he likes you enough to do so. So next time, let the guy make the first move — no matter how much you like him. 😉

Next, it’s never a good idea to start getting gossip, spreading gossip and trying to involve third parties in finding out what someone else’s feelings are. It usually just leads to confusion. So leave your friends out of figuring out who thinks or feels what.

And lastly, it sounds like this guy you like is confused about his sexuality and may be experimenting and/or just unsure. This means that not only do you not know if he likes you, you don’t know if he likes men, women or both. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing — but it is going to make your situation more confusing if you continue to invest energy in this guy.

I hope this helps. Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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