Im an older man (55) have a young friend (25) have known her over 10 years, she is also friends with my wife. Been like a father thing. She moved away, we keep touch by short phone calls or texts. What’s going on with her at nursing school, problems with her life with her live in boyfriend, when to have her car serviced, computer problems. No big deal. Recently I made a business trip to her town, so we decided to have dinner. She met me at my hotel, I had brought a package from her mother to her, it was a bikini. She removes all her clothes in front of me and puts on the suit!!! ok…. Changed back to her clothes went to eat.
Come time for her to leave, she hugged me so tight I had to hold my breath. Then instead of a kiss on the cheek she kisses me on the mouth, then says “I love you”. That part was nothing new as somethings at the end of texting she puts “luv u”.
All has been the same since, texting and talking. I have another trip to her town soon, but I DONT want to meet and have things go terribly wrong. I not sure what her intentions were or are. But being naked and kissing like that had never happened before. What would a 25 year old be up too. She has always said I was her BFF.
I certainly dont want a friends with benefits relationship. Advice please!
