[Anonymous]

Girl I love is in relationship with other guy because he provides secure home, family, car, ect.

She feels like she is talking to a wall when trying to communicate with him. (poor communication, can’t show how he feels about things) She was unhappy with him so she came to me and we had a seven month affair.

Now we don’t talk because she told him. She wants to give 100 percent to relationship. If not happy, she will come looking for me.

I think he’s going to forgive her because he’s never had a girlfriend, he’s 25, she’s 20, ect ect. I think she feels sorry for him. I love her so much and in the 7 month affair that we were in i know i made her more happy than in the 4 years that they have been together.

Make a guess as to what will happen?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m not really interested in [i]guessing [/i]what will happen next, and I sure don’t have a crystal ball! But I can tell you that if she’s looking for a man who can give her security, as you mentioned, then you’d be wise to try and offer her that. If you can’t, build towards it. What she wants — a secure home, a family, a car, etc. — is pretty normal considering what most women want. Why don’t you to try and be that guy who can give it all to any woman you want? 😉

If she does leave her boyfriend for you, she won’t stay all that long if you can’t give her what she wants. I’m not passing judgment on what it is she wants — just trying to help you understand what women like her are looking for in a man.

It’s competitive out there and it sounds like you’re in your 20s and in a good place in your life to better yourself so you, too, can provide her, or some other woman, with all that she wants!

I hope that helps. Let me know what happens, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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