my boyfriend broke up with me recently because he’s leaving for the army in a few months. ever since he broke up with me he’s been contacting me every single day. he tells me he misses me, and he even told me the other day that he still has feelings for me. we agreed to talk about things so we could figure something out so today i told him “are you free this week to talk about things?” and he said “yeah i told you i would let you know when we’re gonna talk..please don’t rush it you know” and i said “i’m not rushing anything, we talk every single day and it gives me false hope.” and he said “if us talking everyday and being friends is giving you false hope then i won’t waste your time or do that to you cause that’s wrong” and i said “it is wrong especially when you tell me you miss me and you still have feelings for me but don’t want to be with me? it’s hurtful” and he said “then i’ll leave you alone..yes i have feelings for you but i don’t know what i want..so instead of wasting your time..i’ll leave you alone.” i said “i hope you understand where i’m coming from. i just feel like you’re hanging onto me bc you don’t know what you want but i do know what i want. when you tell me those things it makes me feel like you still have feelings but i’m not good enough to be with. and i’m sitting here hoping you’ll change your mind and we could take things slowly and work things out but i don’t think you wanna give it another chance.” he said “did i say that?no..but i do wanna work it out..but i don’t like being labeled and that sorta thing..but you assume that i want nothing to do with you so you blow it outta proportion..just let it be and if you can’t handle us talking everyday, then we won’t it’s simple.” and now he’s calling me later tonight so we can talk about things over the phone.
1. did he have feelings for me? does he have feelings for me?
2. could he really have feelings for me but not know what he wants because he’s leaving soon? or is this a bunch of bs?
please just explain what he’s feeling and what i should do. thank you so much
