[perezk]

So, I’ve gone on 2 dates with a guy that I met online (He’s a doing his residency in medicine right now).

[b]First Date:
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He invited me to a concert. I decided to meet up with him halfway at a local plaza because I wasn’t comfortable having him pick me up at my home yet. He opened the door of his car to let me in which I really liked. As we were pulling in to where the concert was he asked to see a ring that I was wearing and asked me who gave it to me (Heart shaped ring) and also said that he liked my nails (gels with white tips lol)During the concert we talked and shared some laughs and said to me “I think you’re really nice”. He also held my hand most of the time and gave me a kiss on the cheek. After the concert, in the valet line he would give me a kiss on the head which I thought was cute. Anyhow, by the time we got to the location where I had parked my car, we were starving and the only thing open was the drive through of a fast food place. He ordered the same thing that I did down to the drink. So, we went to the back seat and after we ate we began talking and he said “I like you” “You have a really great smile”..and eventually he kissed me on the lips. Towards the end he got kind of fresh and ended up kissing me on the neck and that lead to kissing my breasts (which I should not have allowed!) I asked him, “What are you looking for?” He said, “I’m looking for someone special”… anyhow, I had to go and we said goodbye and he said “I’ll see you next week?” and I agreed.

The next morning he texted me “Have a good day!” and that it. He’s always short and genric with his texts and we usually alternate with the have a good day texts. Also, when he added me on facebook he erased a smiley face I posted, so I was super upset thinking he was trying to cover up something. So, the next time it was his turn I told him through text that I didn’t like that he was disrespectful on our last date and that if he truly was interested he would not have done that and that I thought he was a nice guy until that happened and am not comfortable with the fact that he may have the wrong intentions with me. I also said, “Oh and I’m sorry for messing up your ‘game’ with my smiley face on your facebook.”

He responded:
“I have no bad intentions with you, I just want to get to know you better. And about what happened, I sincerely apologize, I let my hormones run freely and I should not have done that. About facebook, I try to maintain a semiprofessional profile and that was the reason I erased the smiley face.”

So, I gave him the benefit of the doubt.

The next day he texted me and asking me if I would have lunch with him that weekend.

[b]Second Date:[/b]

He picked me up at my place and he was not touchy feely at all! No holding hands or kissing lol He ordered the same exact thing as me like last time. He was super polite and a gentleman. I wanted to get up to go get a napkin and he responded right away no, I’ll go get it for you…Anyhow, when we got out of the restaurant instead of going straight to the car he walked the other way and we chatted for a bit while walking. After he dropped me off home, I texted him like 20 min later saying “Thank you, again for lunch —-. I enjoyed your company 🙂” He said, “Me too. Have a good day!” and that was it.

Why is he so short with his texts? (He does text me every other day but it’s always the same, “Have a great/good day!!” Also, he never calls. I’m not sure if it’s b/c he’s busy with his residency.

I would love your opinion/feedback!

Thanks!!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’re just getting to know him, and his short texts are just part of who he is. Not everyone is wordy or effusive. As for his never calling, that’s probably either because he’s too busy or he’s not that interested (yet or at all). If he asks you out for a third date, then you can be assured that he’s interested in getting to know you further. If not, he’s decided you’re not his cup of tea.

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[perezk]

Thank you, April 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re welcome! 😀

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