I had been dating my bf for about 7 months, we’ve had arguments and broken up 2 times in between. The last time, I went out with a guy my best friend had been setting me up for. We casually dated for over a month, and now he want to be serious, and my bf had been acting like we never broke up. Who should I choose?
The one that you feel you are in love with, who you truly want to spend your mornings and nights with, who you can text all day everyday and still can’t wait for him to reply, who makes you laugh, but on the other hand incompatible in so many other ways. There is only one alpha in a relationship and we both wanted to be it. I know it’ll take alot to make it work, I have to put up with so much, and I just want to give up after every argument. I love him, I just don’t know if I love him enough to put up with everything. But he’s holding on and I just don’t know how to let him go.
Or the safe choice. A guy that you know will never hurt you, does everything right, who your friends like to see you with. You like him, but you are not in love with him, at least not yet, and you don’t know if you ever will. There’s no sparks, no butterfly in the stomach, no you can’t wait to see him or talk to him. But he treats you right, and treats your family right, the way you want him to and needs him to.
