[500daysofbummer]

It’s been almost three months since my ex and I broke up and I haven’t heard from him since then. Things ended badly, and I said a lot of things that I shouldn’t have. I left him voice mails and texts and he was ignoring all of it so I told him if he wanted it to be over to just say yes. He never responded. I apologized for everything a couple days later and told him that I didn’t want to lose him over something so trivial(He went to a party and never even mentioned it to me, we got into an argument over it). A couple days later, he’s single on Facebook and no word from him. Again I tried talking to him. I sent him a text telling him I knew it was over but I just wanted to know why. No reply. A week or so later he told someone that I’m too much handle, bitchy, absolutely insane, and that he would never ever date me again. I haven’t heard from him or tried talking to him since the night we got into the argument almost 3 months ago. We have a class together in school this year and he won’t even look in my direction, I try acting like he’s not there but it’s hard. I still miss him after everything and I want him back in my life. Do you think we’ll ever talk again and he’ll always feel this way towards me? Should I try talking to him? He also recently posted a status online saying he’d rather feel the pain than nothing at all. Could this be about me? Or am I overthinking this?

[AskApril Masini]

[quote]Do you think we’ll ever talk again and he’ll always feel this way towards me? [/quote]

No. Eventually he’ll get over his anger and move on. People use anger to separate, and it sounds like he’s committed to the break up and is really trying to move on with his life.

[quote]Should I try talking to him? [/quote]

No. You already did. He doesn’t want to. 😳

[quote]He also recently posted a status online saying he’d rather feel the pain than nothing at all. Could this be about me? [/quote]

Yes.

[quote]Or am I overthinking this?[/quote]

I don’t know if you’re over thinking this, but you are trying to get someone back who isn’t interested in a reunion. You’re trying to cling to any remnant of hope — and the reality is that that’s not working for you. My advice is to focus on yourself and try to figure out what went wrong in the relationship, work on that for next time you’re dating someone, and do things that are productive and healthy for you — without him. 😉

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