[quote=”Megishere”]
If you live with her and her kids presently though, why can you not be a comfort to them? Doesn’t her family know about you?[/quote]
Her side of the family knows about me, but the husband’s side does not know me. I cannot be of comfort to them because that’s what she wants. She wants to look like the greiving widow, not the separated wife whose living with another man. I just feel really scummy and like I did something wrong. I did not, she is the one who did not go about this the correct way and know I have to pay for it.
