that does help thank you but also I wanted to know what the whole “I don’t want to rush things” mean to guys? especially if ive hurt him in the past is he just being cautious or he is blowing me off? I don’t know because I cant tell because we do talk everyday and all so why would he waste his time if he didnt want to talk to me? I have been out of the “dating” seen for awhile so I dont know how guys “work” now lol