[divobird]

thank you once again for your brilliant advice. i am pleased to tell you that my ex husband is going to be ok after his suicide attempt. i am still having problems with some friends and family members who think that i am an awful person and my boyfriend is having it taken out on him, but hes dealing with it very well. Still there are many things to sort out i just hope in time that the people who are judging this situation will see sense and get used to the idea of me being with a different partner.
thank you it is so nice to be able to talk to someone from a 3rd party and get some rational advice instead of a pile of abuse. i will post again next week to let you know of any developments

[divobird]

thanks for your advice, i am glad you think i am behaving in the right way. As you said my childrens best interests are my main concern, and i want them to have as a good as a relationship with their father as ever before but he is saying he doesn’t want to see them as he thinks my new boyfriend is going to try and take over them. but thats never going to happen, i don’t even want my new boyfriend to meet the children for a while yet they are still adjusting. I had a phone call this morning to say that my ex is in hospital and that he is critical, they don’t know whether his liver is going to fail. How would i tell the children if anything happened to him? I think he only did this to try and punish me but its the children who will be the ones who get hurt, i can’t believe how selfish he has been doing this. And even though i don’t love him or want to be with him anymore, i would never want him to die. On top of this i am only 24 years old, i got pregnant with my first child at 18 and so really i know no other life than the last 7 years so i am scared but i know that this is what i want i just never wanted to cause so much pain.

thanks again

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