Yeah that is great advice… But what do i do about “trying” i want to be mates, but i don’t want her to move on, because that will kill me inside! ive always tried best for this girl, should i for this situation, be there for her, and just try to make her feel secure…. i don’t know why because i have dealt with breakups before…. but this is the worst. It felt like she was the one, and we were so close. I know this sounds so stupid for someone to be so young, but ive always been mature, and not easily put off. I want this girl, and wanna try anything.
What is the best option for now?
Should i back off of the “i love you” or shall i keep telling her i love you?
I thought of just being like best mates and messing around, nothing sexual, no touchy feely etc… but have a laugh. and then just as i am about to go home, kiss her on her head or something…. something to let her know she is still the one for me, and i’ll keep on trying no matter how hard it is.
Thanks for your advice…. it kinda helped me understand :/
