i am 22 and he is 32. we have been dating for almost 2 years, we have been engaged for about 2 years. the wedding date is in this upcoming august. neither of us has a job. i have just gotten my NI number, so i am only now legal to work, and my fiancé has unfortunately been laid off his job the 1st of oct. our relationship was across countries most of the time, which means we have spent months apart. when i arrived here in june i was in my period, which obviously meant we didn’t get straight back into a routine of being together, and it has stayed pritty much the same ever since… i hope this is enough information. thank you…