Thanks April. I have recognized that I am the problem and that it is important for me to make him feel special and loved in the relationship. We had another talk last night and I told him that I recognize what I did wrong in our relationship by not trusting him and being insecure all of the time I told him that I want to fix this and make changes on my end that would repair the relationship. I asked him if he was seeing anyone else and he said that the fact that I even asked him that question shows that I don’t take full responsibility for the demise of the relationship and that it still shows that I don’t trust him. He said that he no longer wants to be in a relationship with me and that he won’t forgive me, and that there is no repairing the relationship because he doesn’t want to work on it anymore. I asked him what changed, because we have always be able to work on our problems. He said he just can’t do it anymore. But could it be that there is someone else? You see we still live together so it is hard and I don’t want us to break up or move out. But I don’t understand. If I am willing to work on fixing the problems that are wrong and I am sincere about it, why can’t he just say that he is willing to work it out? I strongly feel that if we can get past this issue in our relationship then we can move on and truly be happy. But I feel hurt that it has come to him not wanting to give me a chance. What should I do now that we have had this talk? He and I were laughing and joking around this morning and he even brought me to work. It’s hard because I know that we can work it out but I just can’t get him to realize it. How can I get him to realize it?
